About the song
Bill Withers, a soulful singer-songwriter with a distinctive voice, released his second studio album, Still Bill, in 1972. Among the standout tracks on this album was “Who Is He (And What Is He to You)?,” a poignant exploration of jealousy and insecurity in a romantic relationship.
Withers, known for his honest and relatable lyrics, penned this song alongside Stan McKenny. The duo created a haunting melody that perfectly complements the song’s emotional depth. The track’s arrangement is sparse, relying primarily on Withers’ soulful vocals and the gentle strumming of an acoustic guitar.
The lyrics of “Who Is He (And What Is He to You)?” delve into the mind of a jealous narrator, who is consumed by doubts about their partner’s fidelity. The narrator questions the identity of the mysterious “he” who seems to occupy their partner’s thoughts. The song’s repetitive chorus emphasizes the narrator’s persistent insecurity and longing for reassurance.
The song’s emotional impact is further enhanced by Withers’ powerful vocals. His voice conveys a sense of vulnerability and desperation, as he grapples with the fear of losing his loved one. The song’s slow tempo and melancholic tone create a haunting atmosphere that lingers long after the final note.
“Who Is He (And What Is He to You)?” has become a timeless classic, resonating with listeners across generations. Its exploration of jealousy and insecurity is a universal theme that continues to be relevant today. The song’s enduring popularity is a testament to Withers’ songwriting prowess and his ability to connect with audiences on a deep emotional level.
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Lyrics
A man we passed just tried to stare me down
And when I looked at you, you looked at the ground
I don’t know who he is but I think that you do
Dad-gum-it! Who is he, and what is he to you?[Verse 2]
Ah, something in my heart and in your eye
Tells me he’s not someone just passing by
Ahh, and when you cleared your throat, was that your cue?
Dad-gum-it! Who is he, and what is he to you?[Verse 3]
Ah now, when I add the sum of you and me
I get confused and keep coming up with three
You’re too much for one man but not enough for two
Dad-gum-it! Who is he, and what is he to you?[Verse 4]
Girl, you tell me men don’t have much intuition, now love
Is that what you really think, little girl, or are you wishin’?
Before you wreck your old home, be certain of the new
Dad-gum-it! Who is he, and what is he to you?[Outro]
Dad-gum-it! Who is he, and what is he to you?
Dad-gum-it! Who is he, and what is he to you?
Dad-gum-it! Who is he, and what is he to you?