About the song
The Four Seasons’ “Big Girls Don’t Cry” is more than just a catchy pop song; it’s a timeless anthem that has resonated with audiences for decades. Released in 1962, this heartfelt ballad quickly climbed the charts, reaching the top spot in the United States and New Zealand. Its enduring popularity can be attributed to its relatable lyrics, infectious melody, and the powerful vocals of Frankie Valli.
The song’s central theme is resilience and the importance of moving on from heartbreak. It tells the story of a young woman who is determined to maintain her composure and dignity despite her emotional pain. The lyrics, written by Bob Gaudio, capture the universal experience of heartbreak with poignant simplicity. Lines like “Big girls don’t cry, they just turn away” and “I’ll try to forget, I’ll try to move on” convey a sense of strength and determination.
Valli’s vocal performance is a highlight of the song. His rich tenor voice conveys both vulnerability and resilience, capturing the emotional depth of the lyrics. The arrangement, featuring a lush orchestral backdrop and Valli’s trademark falsetto, adds to the song’s emotional impact.
“Big Girls Don’t Cry” has become a classic of the pop music genre, inspiring countless artists and influencing generations of listeners. Its enduring popularity is a testament to its timeless message and the power of music to connect with audiences on a deep emotional level.
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Lyrics
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cryBig girls don’t cry-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (who said they don’t cry?)
My girl said goodbye-yi-yi (my oh my)
My girl didn’t cry (I wonder why)(Silly boy) told my girl we had to break up
(Silly boy) hoped that she would call my bluff
(Silly boy) then she said to my surprise
“Big girls don’t cry”Big girls don’t cry-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (who said they don’t cry?)(Maybe) I was cru-you-uel (I was cruel)
Baby I’m a fool (I’m such a fool)(Silly girl) “Shame on you” your mama said
(Silly girl) “Shame on you, you’re cryin’ in bed”
(Silly girl) “Shame on you, you told me lies”
Big girls do cryBig girls don’t cr-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (that’s just an alibi)
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry